I am proud to introduce you to Amber, who humoured me and has written a guest blog for us today. She contacted me through email about my woeful longings for Solo to have a job again and to get him back into shape. We had our first meeting this past Sunday and she is fantastic. Not only does she have a lovely seat and posture, she got the Solo seal of approval, a list which only has two people on it, AND she's just a fun person! Perhaps my red love boy is finally relaxing and learning that its ok to trust the people I bring him. He thoroughly enjoyed his job as caretaker and Amber very quickly re-found her balance and rhythm. I couldn't be more excited and proud for my beloved shiny horse and so happy and grateful to have met such a great person.
Without further ado, take it away, Amber!
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Everything. Hurts. And it’s glorious. I couldn’t be happier to be this stiff and sore! It’s
so completely worth it for the experience of riding Solo. And I guess a
statement like that begs for some background information.
While I haven’t left comments on this blog, I’ve lurked in the background for a while. I’d sit reading away every morning when I got to work; yes I was procrastinating. It was just a nice window into a sport I enjoyed in my teens. I
stopped riding about 15 years ago and pretty firmly closed the door on
that part of my life. It’s funny how horses manage to creep back into
your heart and your life, sometimes when you aren’t expecting it at all.
One morning I read Brena’s blog post about Solo needing some attention
and exercise, and all of my casual thoughts of getting back into
eventing became this uncontrollable urge to start fresh with this horse.
It’s the Solo magic I think. Before I knew it, I was emailing like a
complete creeper to see if this stranger would let me ride her horse. Imagine
my surprise when instead of a restraining order, I received an email
response! Brena has been immensely generous with her time, expertise,
and her shiny wonder boy.
I drove up and was privileged to ride Solo this past Sunday. Of
course when I first saw him, Solo was running around his pasture
screaming and performing aerial maneuvers I haven’t seen outside of a
Royal Lipizzaner Stallion performance [eventer79 notes: Encore was on the hotwalker and Solo disapproved and there was a cold wind blowing up his tail]. I just looked at
Brena as she laughed and said “that’s my broken horse”. I’ll admit, I
definitely had a moment of questioning my sanity as I watched him gallop
and buck. As soon as he realized we were coming to get him though he
settled right down. It was awesome to see his happy face as he received
some well-deserved attention from his minions. Solo is very expressive,
and it was easy to see he enjoys having people fawn over him.
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Wait till she gets to do this... Damn, he looked good then! |
As
I scrambled aboard he was a saint, and definitely babysat me as I
exhibited amazing feats of clumsiness and a complete lack of
coordination. It is simultaneously humbling and hilarious
to ask your muscles to do things that they haven’t even considered for
15 years. My brain said one thing and my body did something completely
different! I’m so grateful that Solo took such good care of me, and I
know he most definitely took pity on me because I really doubt any of my
cues were very effective. I’m also grateful that Brena is
willing to allow me to ride His Shine-ness, and I look forward to the
both of us slowly getting back into shape. Who knows, maybe someday you
guys will see us out doing a maiden course somewhere. But for now, Sweet
Heavens to Betsy…I am a bowlegged mess, and this is several days later!
I’ll take being this horribly sore any day if it means I’ve been out
riding.